My Dearest ,
I've had such a full week since my last video because I've got something in the works that will be INSANELY beneficial to you. I've started planning the first "Deeper Love Summit" a free online event where I'll host interviews with some of todays leading voices in love, intimacy, relationships and heart centeredness.
Needless to say - this is (and will continue to be) a pretty consuming task, but I think that you'll find it to be as useful and practical as inspiring. Because of this, I was unable to record a new video for you today.
My guilty confession
This is something hard for me to admit but I usually feel so damn guilty when I don't find the time to record and edit a new video for you on a given week (even when I'm still working hard behind screens to bring you a ton of value).
At times I even
start questioning how committed I am to this work when I can't share something new each week.
So today I'm not going to do that, primarily because it doesn't feel good and I know how hard I'm working hard to bring you the best possible resources and skills, but most importantly - because I want to ask you to do the same in your
life.
Making this practical
Is there something that you're giving grief to yourself about but you don't really have to? Perhaps you didn't do something the "prefect" way you wanted to, or you didn't go the extra mile or you simply were
too tired to see a friend?
Well, I'm asking you today to let it go for good.
What does this have to do with relationships and love?
EVERYTHING.
You see, a big mistake I see women make is exactly this - not asking for what they want out of a sense of guilt around "needing" too much. Almost as if they have to give and give and give and because it's never enough, they end up feeling guilty
around not being perfect, and guilty around not asking for what they really want.
A friend of mine once shared with me a wise ZEN philosophy that states: "The way you do anything is the way you do everything". Think about it, the more you're able to give yourself what you need in your day-to-day tasks, the easier it will be for you to act
with that level of inner strength when you attract and connect with an amazing guy.
So give yourself permission today to be imperfectly awesome and let me know (if you care) how liberating this feels.
