Beautiful ,
I've developed a fun gift these last few years of my life. It's the ability to connect with a woman and within a short period of time accurately predict how easy or hard finding love will be for her.
Sometimes this skill goes as far as foreseeing the fact that it will be impossible for her to find
love (and connect with a man), unless she dramatically changes in more than one way.
The reason why I'm sharing this is not to brag about how cool this skill is (trust me, sometimes it's not fun to see this clearly) but to tell you that if you want to create the kind of relationship that most women only dream about, it takes a heck of a
lot more than strategy to get there.
The Missing Ingredient
Most women have a relatively decent intellectual understanding of what it takes to connect with a
man but unfortunately they're not acting based on that knowledge.
Why would this happen?
Typically, this takes place because there's a fear or an emotional block that prohibits her from
consistently taking action and valuing herself highly enough so that men and other people can see her greatness and connect with her accordingly.
So if you really want to know what's the number one way to create not a minor but a MASSIVE shift in your love life, it's not learning a bunch of new strategies but developing more guts - aka -
stepping more fiercely into courage.
What does this mean? Well, it's about developing the guts to be honest with yourself and admit that you really want a man in your life.
It's also about
developing the guts to make love your highest priority (not because you want to connect with a man but because you don't want to die having lived a half-lived life), and it's about claiming the guts to find a way to make love happen even when it gets really, really, really tough.
So there you have
it.
If you want love in your life and you're not experiencing it the secret is: it takes more guts than strategy :)
